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How tradition replaced truth—and what it cost us.

Lie #1: God’s original plan was one man and one woman.

God gave Adam a helper—not a limit. No verse says he couldn’t have more. In fact, God gave multiple wives to His chosen men.

Lie #2: The 'two become one flesh' means monogamy.

Scripture shows men becoming ‘one flesh’ with multiple wives. This verse means union—not exclusivity.

Lie #3: Polygamy is a result of sin.

Polygyny was normalized and regulated in Scripture. God even said He gave David multiple wives (2 Samuel 12:8).

Lie #4: The New Testament prohibits it.

It doesn’t. Paul only restricts bishops to one wife. That implies others could have more than one.

Lie #5: No one practices this anymore.

Thousands of faithful believers do—including leaders in the faith. It never stopped; it just went underground.

Lie #6: Polygamy harms women.

No—abandonment does. Biblical polygyny provides covering, community, and legacy for women.

Lie #7: It’s selfish for a man to want more than one wife.

What’s selfish is demanding a man deny what God permits so someone else feels special. Biblical love is selfless, not possessive.

Lie #8: There’s no example of godly polygynous marriages in Scripture.

Abraham, Jacob, David, Moses—God used them all. Imperfect? Yes. But faithful and fruitful.

Lie #9: Jesus didn’t teach it.

He also didn’t mention abortion or heroin. Silence isn’t prohibition. He upheld the Law—which allowed polygyny.

Lie #10: This is a distraction from the gospel.

Restoring truth isn’t a distraction—it’s discipleship. Marriage reflects the Kingdom. Getting it right matters.

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