I’m Rob Kowalski. Once the most sought-after male stripper in Baltimore. Now, a voice for biblical masculinity, unapologetic truth, and legacy-minded family building.
But it wasn’t always like this.
For years, I lived fast and wild. Parties, women, casual sex, I was deep in the nightlife industry and chasing pleasure with no brakes.
I had everything the world said would make me happy. But I was empty. I knew something had to change.
When I gave my life to Christ, I went all in. I left the industry, embraced sexual purity, and became one of the loudest voices for abstinence and Christian monogamy.
I stayed abstinent for a combined 18 years.
I even wrote a book, Why Waiting Works, and started a global movement around purity.
But even in my obedience, I noticed something was still broken.
After years of unnecessary suffering, I started studying this topic in Scripture, and the more I did the more I realized what the church had taught me wasn’t lining up.
The Bible never forbade polygyny. God never condemned the men He gave multiple wives to. And the “monogamy-only” standard we were all pushing was hurting men, women, and families.
I started speaking out. I got pushback. I lost friends. I was removed from my small group, and eventually, the church I was attending.
But I couldn’t stay silent.
Now, I help other men and women unplug from false teachings and rebuild their lives on God’s design.
I coach men through my Man of Options program, equipping them to lead, provide, and build biblical households, whether monogamous or polygynous.
My wife, Sanne, leads Faithful Femininity to help women become the kind of wives godly men want to lead.
We’re not just about marriage. We’re about mission. Legacy. Kingdom.
And we’re just getting started.