I’m Rob Kowalski. Once the most sought-after male stripper in Baltimore. Now, a voice for biblical masculinity, unapologetic truth, and legacy-minded family building.
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But it wasn’t always like this.
For years, I lived fast and wild. Parties, women, casual sex, I was deep in the nightlife industry and chasing pleasure with no brakes.
I had everything the world said would make me happy. But I was empty. I knew something had to change.
When I gave my life to Christ, I went all in. I left the industry, embraced sexual purity, and became one of the loudest voices for abstinence and Christian monogamy.
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I stayed abstinent for a combined 18 years.
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I even wrote a book, Why Waiting Works, and started a global movement around purity.
But even in my obedience, I noticed something was still broken.
After years of unnecessary suffering, I started studying this topic in Scripture, and the more I did the more I realized what the church had taught me wasn’t lining up.
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The Bible never forbade polygyny. God never condemned the men He gave multiple wives to. And the “monogamy-only” standard we were all pushing was hurting men, women, and families.
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I started speaking out. I got pushback. I lost friends. I was removed from my small group, and eventually, the church I was attending.
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But I couldn’t stay silent.
Now, I help other men and women unplug from false teachings and rebuild their lives on God’s design.
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I coach men through my Man of Options program, equipping them to lead, provide, and build biblical households, whether monogamous or polygynous.
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My wife, Sanne, leads Faithful Femininity to help women become the kind of wives godly men want to lead.
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We’re not just about marriage. We’re about mission. Legacy. Kingdom.
And we’re just getting started.