Rob Kowalski

Many Christian men quietly struggle with a question they’re afraid to ask: why does sexual desire fade in marriage, even when love remains? Psychology calls it habituation. Scripture calls men to be fruitful and multiply. What if this tension isn’t moral failure, but misunderstood design, and what if the church has been answering the wrong question all along?

Let’s talk about one of the biggest misconceptions about polygyny—the one that people love to throw at me the moment they hear I support it. "Rob, just admit you want to sleep with multiple women.""You’re just trying to justify your lust.""This isn’t about God, this is about your flesh." I’ve heard it all. And let me tell you—nothing could be further from the truth. The Reality of Male Nature Yes, let’s be honest —men are wired for variety. It’s biological. It’s undeniable. And God designed...

Today I’m diving into a hot topic that’s often overlooked and rarely discussed: biblical polygamy or polygyny (a man having multiple wives) to be exact. Yeah, I know, it’s a bit of a curveball, but let’s explore why this practice might make more sense than you’d think. First off, polygyny isn’t as crazy as it sounds. In fact, it has some legit advantages over traditional monogamy, like economic, social, and health benefits. Let’s break it down: 1. No Bible Banning: I have to start here for...